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Admin | Published march 2nd 2018, 2:23 am

????Opening Story:


????I never knew he meant to have sex with me when he ????called me over this fateful day????. Bode had always been my friend ???? for a very long time. He had asked me ????out???? time without number but I refused politely, telling him I will give him the right answer when the time comes. 

People call us husband an wife???? but to me I never mean it. I never know, until Bode tricked me to his room that day that he had attached some kind of senseless senses to what I call mere appellation. He told me he wasn't feeling too good????, and as a friend I decided to visit.

I got to his house all to realise that  there was actually nothing wrong with him????. I was angry ???? and I wanted to go back, but he forced-shut his door and begged???? me to listen to him first. With anger gushing out ???? of me like a pump blood, I waited, looking at him furiously as he relate his stories. 

At first, I got confused????: my anger eluded me and I started to wonder. It wasn't that I've not heard him say these before, but for the fact that he had to bring me from my house, as far as it is to his place baffled me. He concluded by saying "Peace, I know you don't love me, but I really do love you. Any time I look at you I have this urge of having sex with you. But today I can't resist it, that is why I have called you over."

I looked at her as he went down his kneel crawling towards the door where I stood - held my hand and muttered "Please help me. Give me this one chance: let's have sex" 

 It wasn't really funny, was it? But I saw myself laughing angrily. I loved Bode and trusted him, but had never thought he could be devilish to that extent. I  told him he's actually sick that I can't do such a thing.

I wanted to force my hand off him but he gripped me forcefully and carried me to his bed. I tried all I could to force my way out off his hands. But the more I tried, the harder he gripped me. He never let go of me until he had sex with me"


TO CONSENT simply means "to give formal permission for something to happen." I could also mean "acceptance for or agreement to something proposed or desired by another." 

Sexual Consent is overlooked in many relationships but is a very strong key in building a healthy relationship, even in a marriage! 

True Consent means that both partners want and freely choose to have sexual contact. When one of the two says no, there is NO sexual consent.


???? Check out this Six (6) ways you can make your NO mean NO


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